Happy New Year 2015!

Happy New Year Readers!  May:

• your dreams come true
• you be buoyed by the love of the people around you
• your desires be met
• your bucket list get ticked off
• you be resolute in your resolutions 
• you read inspiring books and see inspiring films
• you continue to work on self-development
• you develop your talents
• you give as well as receive 
• you choose your thoughts
• you speak your truth
• health be yours
• your heart be light
• you live an abundant life
• the wind be at your back
• Etc.

Bisous,

Stella

A Blessing for my Niece

Sacha is the mother of our godson

 Sacha is starting a new job after the Christmas holidays.  This, from John O'Donahue's To Bless The Space Between Us,  if for her:

May your new work excite your heart,

Kindle in your mind a creativity

To journey beyond the old limits

Of all that has become wearisome.

May this work challenge you toward 

New frontiers that will emerge

As you begin to approach them,

Calling forth from you the full force 

And depth of your undiscovered gifts.

May the work fit the rhythms of your soul,

Enabling you to draw from the invisible

New ideas and a vision that will inspire.

May this new work be worthy

Of the energy of your heart

And the light of your thought.

May your work assume

A proper space in your life:

Instead of owning or using you,

May it challenge and refine you,

Bringing you every day further

Into the wonder of your heart.

Love,

Tatie Stella

First Time

Yesterday was the first Christmas Eve at home without our eldest son Tristan, 25.  I snuffled and sobbed half the day while preparing our traditional fondue dinner. Although we Skyped with him a couple of times during the day, it does not compare with the giant squeezy hugs he gives us or when I get to kiss him on the neck or by the ear or when he makes us laugh till our sides hurt.  Thank goodness that we still have Damien with us!!

I wrote my 93-year-old Dad a quick note to wish him a Merry Christmas Eve and told him of how I was missing my boy. He wrote back (loosely translated from the French):

I understand your emotions, particularly at this time of year. But look at it on the bright side, your boys are getting an excellent education (to ensure a good living).  It warms the heart.
I wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR, especially good HEALTH.
Your Dad who does not forget you.

Sniff.  I thought I was done crying.

Today we are headed for my sister Doreen's for Christmas dinner and although it's not like having Tristan home, we will be surrounded by the warm hug of her large family with numerous little ones running about.

Joyeux Noël!

Stella

Take Out the Pans

When I'm feeling a little blue, as I am today, I pull out the pans and make something to eat.  In this case, there is plenty of inspiration:

a) It's almost Christmas
b) I have two new cookbooks
c) I have at least two grateful recipients

Duchess is a fabulous French bakery in Edmonton.  If you are ever in the area, a visit is highly recommended.  The Paris Brest and the Lemon Tart are personal favourites.  Anyway, this fall, they put out a cookbook which I purchased ten days ago after we drove T. our boy to the airport where he flew back to Chicago in time for his rotation in infectious diseases.  (This is called a run on sentence I think but it matches my état d'âme so on and on I go).

Baking is not my favourite kind of cooking but beautiful cookbooks make me want to pull out my mom's wedding gift mixing bowls and my mother-in-law's vintage loaf pans.  And so I did.

My boys love banana bread so I made two small Hummingbird loaves which will be adorned with cream cheese icing tomorrow.

While waiting for the loaves to bake, I took out my new aquisition.  It is a special desserts cookbook written by the contesse of the Château Vaux le Vicomte.  A couple of years ago, my friend Rose showed me her copy and I didn't so much fall for the recipes as I did the setting where the photos of decadent desserts were styled and shot.  I found it on Abe Books for a song (less than 10$ US shipped, it's original price 45$). 

I admire the pluck of the Countess for putting out this book.  She makes me think that I can do it too...

But first, I'll try her Dulce de leche recipe which is laughably easy.  Open a can of condensed milk, put it in a bain marie and heat it on low for three hours until the milk turns caramel in color. Then eat it by the silver spoonful.

I will never make candied croissants but I love how this picture looks.  The sparkle of the crystal is set off by the buttery puffiness of the croissant.

There, that made me feel better.

Love,

Stella

Marco Polo

In the past ten days,  V. and I have been watching the Marco Polo series on Netflix.  We're both happy to learn more about the Italian adventurer (whose home in Venice we saw this past October) but more so to learn about Kublai Khan and the great Mongolian empire at its peak.

The sets, costumes and countryside are truly stunning and I marvel at how much beauty the Mongols enjoyed in the 13th Century.  Windows, pillars, floors,  furniture and gardens are equally beautiful and artisan's work is evident in every object, costume and setting that is featured in the series.

Naturally, we are looking mostly at the Khan's dwelling or at the Chinese Emperor's castle but even the yurts that house the tribes of the great Gobi desert are luxuriously decorated. If the storyline doesn't always keep your eyes glued to the television, the visuals will.

The acting is good:  Little known Lorenzo Richelmy plays clever yet humble Marco Polo, well-known Joan Chen plays a favorite wife of the Khan, Tom Wu plays Hundred Eyes the blind monk charged with Marco Polo's education in the martial arts and finally, Chin Han plays the evil Chancellor, hungry for power on the other side of the Great Wall. Benedict Wong is imposing as the Kublai Khan at once tenderhearted and treacherous, a friend and a formidable foe.  His presence, made all the more majestic by his costumes,  is intimidating.

The series is rife with political and sexual intrigue and conflict and if sometimes, I knit while watching, I still look forward to seeing what happens next.

I give the series four stars out of five for stunning visuals and a diverse cast of good actors.

Love,

Stella

Pentatonix White Winter Hymnal

I think that this Fleet Foxes cover by Pentatonix is totally rad.  Enjoy! 
Below is the original version by the Fleet Foxes.  Thanks to my son T. in Chicago for introducing them to me. 

Caitlin Matthews in her inspiring little book: Celtic Devotional : Daily Prayers and Blessings counsels us to

Practice introspection, meditation, contemplation, drawing upon the peaceful sanctuary of this season.

The White Winter Hymnal, especially the Fleet Foxes rendition, recalls the winter season in the perfection of its tone and rhythm.


Yours in the Christmas Spirit,

Stella

Darn

When I went to France this year, one of my objectives was to secure a darning egg at the brocante.  I bought a beautiful one in Cotignac but alas, it that has developed a hairline fracture in the last two months as it is very dry here in Alberta.
I also scored at the second-hand store when I found someone's vintage fabric-covered box full of embroidery thread and darning yarn.  I brought a few cards home to use to darn V.'s socks. 
 I like the economy and the ecology of sock-darning.  I have more time now and it makes so much sense to repair a small hole rather than throw two socks away. My friend Corey says that brocanteurs were recycling before it became a trend.
My Mom used to have a flowered biscuit tin to hold all of her darning and embroidery thread and I remember her wearing a thimble... I love vintage sewing notions and think that I'll be looking out for more of these on future trips. 

Do any of you darn? or sew? or knit? 

Stella

Recording Gratitude: You are Never too Old or Too Young

This post is dedicated to Donna with thanks.

If we are still hearing about the power of gratitude in books, on Oprah and on the net, it is in large part because of  Sarah Ban Breathnach and her seminal work: Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy published in 1994.  That book spoke in part, about the importance of gratitude: all you have is all you need" wrote the author.  Oprah discovered the "pink book" in her offices and the world was never the same again.

Ban Breathnach appeared on the Oprah Show maybe 10 times to talk about Simple Abundance and about the power of gratitude to transform lives.  She then published a little book called The Simple Abudance Journal of Gratitude in 1996.  I have begun writing again  in this journal.  I purchase them on Abe Books and often get them for a song.  I know they are also available on ebay. Of course, any piece of paper will do to record five things you are grateful for that happened in your day.

SBB has come out with a children's book with the theme of gratitude at it's core, it's titled: The Best Part of the Day.  The book is beautiful with it's illustrations by Wendy Edelson, there's a lot to see on the page and the text is rhymed. I purchased my copy and after having read it, know who I am going to give it to. An activity sheet has been created to accompany said book and I think that cultivating an attitude of gratitude with the very young just might make a big difference in the world we live in. 

You could create a gratitude journal by assembling 7 sheets for a week of daily thank you's.  Or, you could assemble 4 sheets at a time for weekly entries for each month.  A parent could read the book in the evening before bed, gather up the child's gratitude list and on Sunday, the child could write/draw on the activity sheets what he/she was grateful for during the week.  The journals could be seasonal too, as the book is divided.   You can find the activity sheet here. You can purchase the book at Costco if you are in the States (I saw that SBB had a signing there in September) or at Ebay, Barnes and Noble, Book Depository, Amazon, etc.  This book makes a thoughtful gift for any family that you love.

Yours in Simple Abundance, 

Stella

Comments

The comments section has been positively arid the last few weeks.  Corey and Rachelle, I have gotten yours and thank you.

Sister D. has told me that she tried commenting by replying to the blog post she's been getting in her email.  Which makes sense since she tells me that at the bottom of the post it says "click to reply".

Warning, warning, warning! If you click to reply thinking that this will enter a comment, it does not!

If you wish to comment, you must click "comments" at the bottom of the blog post and enter your comment there, OK?

Love to hear from you!

Stella

The Perfection of Morning

Tom Brown Fine Art

I love mornings, it's my favorite time of the day.  I love to lie in and wake up slowly, drink my latte, do some reading, think, roll over and think so more before I check emails and read a little of my favorite blogs.  That is, if I'm not working that day.

Often the lie-in leads to inspiration and what I'm going to do with my day if I don't already have a list of things to do.  No, that's not quite so, I always have a list of things to do but in the morning, I get to decide if I'm going to do something on the list or if I'm going to check off  something on the 'what I feel like doing' list.

It could be writing a post or checking out books to read or books to create from.  I love Kaari Meng's French General books.  All those red to coral tones in antique or antique inspired materials. What I love is her love of all things French and her fresh take on them. I have yet to sew my Esprit de Noël quilt, the time is approaching but not quite here.

I've asked my men to drag the 6 Christmas green Rubbermaid bins from the crawl space to begin decorating.  A glass of wine, my favorite Windham Hill A Winter Solstice soundtracks playing, the early evening darkness and wood fire are the perfect stage for decorating a tree.

Between now and then, I'll do a little housecleaning, a little laudry, roast eggplant, peppers, garlic and red onion for our favorite Orzo with Roasted Vegetables, a Barefoot Contessa favorite.  This salad can be eaten at any time of day for a satisfactory meal or snack.  If you are a 25 or 22 year-old, you can inhale it as a snack and thank your mother for making the effort to fill up your hollow legs.

I don't always give a shape to my day in the morning.  Occasionally, I just let it roll out and see what happens. That is the beauty of retirement.

Amen

Stella

Brené Brown and Wholehearted Living

I am currently reading: The Gifts of Imperfection (Let Go of Who You're Supposed to be and Embrace Who You Are) by Brené Brown.  I am so taken with this book.  A few months ago, I spoke aloud my desire to be brave and say my truth instead of just skirting around not wanting to hurt or offend anyone. I am referring here to authentic truths about what a person wants and doesn't want, not the type of truths that are best not shared, if you know what I mean. Brené Brown deconstructs this form of honest integrity for us in her book Daring Greatly which is going to be my next read.

I am very impressed with this researcher/author's work, her TED talks and even her website. Brown is a seasoned research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. She has spent the past decade studying vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame.

My reading circle is meeting Monday night and I can't wait to hear what my friends' take is on this seminal work. 

She has generously created some downloads on the site, check them out! Here is my wish for you!

I give The Gifts of Imperfection a whopping 5 stars out of 5.  It's the best self-help book I have read in a long time.

Stella

Words to Live By



 

Have you ever felt that there's something you're supposed to do and are not doing?  I don't mean laundry or supper or even taking an evening class,  although an evening class could propel you forward...

Do you dream of creating something special from deep within you? Do you have something to show or to say in an important, significant way? Do you feel a yearning, a pulling that you can't quite come to grips with? Do you toy with an idea but put it aside saying: "Maybe later"?

If you believe that you can, if you even suspect that you can, you must, mustn't you?

Stella